QUESTION OF THE WEEK: Finances are constantly on my mind. I can’t afford expensive changes. Can you suggest specific things that I can do that won’t cost a lot?
Becoming financially stable could mean a number of things depending on your situation. To some, getting out of debt is becoming financially stable, to others investing in the YuanPay Group is becoming stable, and to a few, being able to freely spend money on big changes in their house is stability. Everyone has different goals and aspirations but concerns about finances, career and health are at the top of most people’s list. When I read your question, Elena immediately came to mind. She received a personal consultation as a gift, and when I saw her, the first thing she said was, “If you are going to tell me to purchase anything, I can’t afford it.” Elena was overwhelmed with life and felt hopeless, and, although happy to have me there, she thought that nothing I could suggest would help her situation.
“Inner” feng shui
I knew I had to address Elena’s attitude and way of thinking. Most people do not realize that feng shui has just as much to do with one’s mental and emotional states as it does with arranging the environment. Feng shui encompasses everything in the environment, including the people who occupy it. When you look within and make some changes, the results are always optimized.
Start with gratitude
I asked Elena to make it a habit to take some time each evening to appreciate the good things that happened to her that day, no matter how insignificant. By doing so, it would help her open up the energy to receive more of what she wanted.
Although her focus was on money as the desired abundance, to get the energy moving, she needed to enjoy the abundance that was already present. I explained that if she kept focusing on all the financial challenges she faced, she would attract more of the same, and offered some suggestions for her home:
Find your financial “power spots”
To start, stand at the front door facing into the house and identify your wealth area: the back left hand side of the house. Then, in key individual rooms, find the power spots: the left corner farthest from the door. Now equipped with this information, do the following:
• Clear out the clutter from these areas, and fix or get rid of anything broken.
• Enhance areas with prosperous symbols such as a plant, photo of your dream car or anything that symbolizes wealth to you. Symbols stimulate subconscious.
• Open your eyes to abundance. Take time each day to notice the amazing array of plenitude around you, from produce at the market to gracious people you encounter.
• Let abundance flow through you. Like time, appreciation and love, money is a form of energy, and hoarding works against a greater flow of energy (or, in this case, money) coming in. So live generously and give of your time, energy and appreciation.
Do you have a question for Alice? If so, send it to alice@yourhappinessu.com. Alice Inoue is founder and Chief Happiness officer at Happiness U. Visit www.YourHappinessU.com.